It is a part of the make up of everyone
It is a part of our day to day vocabulary and none of us is immune to giving or receiving abuse
Everyone is guilty
We speak of not engaging in toxic relationships but most only think that extreme cases are what we mean when we think of abuse so the less aggressive stuff gets ignored or given less attention
Our tolerance for abuse is pretty high
It cones from so many sources
Everyone in your life including self delivers abuse
It is like the air we need to breathe and to survive
We feel justified in our own forms of abuse which are things like, "I'm insecure, or Get a thicker skin, or Yu too soff, or You just can't handle my truth, or I have had trauma in my life, or No one else complains, or You hurt me" or any manor of justifiable reasons
It is a survival mechanism
It is comfort and a defense mechanism and at times used to exert power over others
It may well be just human nature
A natural thing
Natural for all of us
But having said that, I am no fan of abuse and I believe I suffer from a lack of tolerance for it
Being an aggressive person, I am known for standing strongly with an argument or physical / verbal confrontations and not backing down and it is a thing I prided within myself, then I realize that I am succumbing to the abuse with the power of rage
I match the abuse with rage
Falling into the abusers path
I become a pawn of abuse
I realize that it crushes spirits and souls globally, including in my own circle/s
Sarcasm is weak behavior
It is given as a joke yet the deliverer believes that they hide their hate with a joke
Feel
No words are necessary to defend any abusive situation
Live well
Feel
Push the venom away
Your friends list will shrink but if they aren't lifting you up spiritually, how are they friends?
Some have suffered great trauma and are unaware of their abusive behavior/s yet I have no need to absorb toxic energy from an external source. Most of us have had to overcome levels of pain, some more than others yet if abuse come along with their outlook/s it is still not acceptable in my opinion
I do not choose abuse
Ever
I see it's toxic path, weakening the spirits of loving souls
Human nature?
Is there a cure for abuse?
I'm not sure if there is one, yet I have zero interest in accepting it
Just sharing thoughts
Bless up