Once you are burned by the right relationship, or by a series of wrong relationships, your chances of being in a successful partnership in future times is highly limited to impossible
Cynicism
Always waiting for the other shoe to drop because experience teaches that it most definitely will
You will impose said cynicism on all future and potential love interests which is akin to pouring hot liquid on said potential partner or relationship/s and expect them to not feel it burn
Doom
"You men" or "You women" won't help you to build trust
Young or old, the cynicism poisons your own soul
I know because I have lived it... I have said "you women" to my partner at the time... it is what I was taught by this time in which I live... Our problems in the relationship I made about her and her perceptions, hence "you women"
I poured venom in her soul without a second thought
I had no wisdom
Is there a solution
Most definitely
The soul connection
You start first with yourself... if your energy is dark you may not be enticing to someone with sunlight in their soul, no matter how physically attractive you may be
Work on your own sunlight
If your focus is only on your target lover, and not on self, trying to maintain an uplifting relationship is an impossible task... You tend to expect your partner to live up to your need to pacify or to entertain or to make you feel secure... None of that is their job/s
I'm fully aware that there are some truly horrific, abusive relationships that folks have experienced, so trust becomes an issue and being gun shy, or wary of the next relationship is very natural and at times, life preserving when one is coming from domestic abusive situations
No arguments there
This is a natural reaction to being burned yet taking it to the next relationship, infused with constant cynicism from the past, will automatically doom the next coupling
The solution is to heal one's own soul
Learn to love the things about you that make you shine, even if a past partner tried to stifle it / them and made you self conscious of the joyful things in you
Create your own shine
Love you
Loving a partner is about the joy you feel inside whether you are with your partner or not... the love is transcendant... a love high
A love high
A higher love
Cynicism
I won't allow it to take my love
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Cynicism
Always waiting for the other shoe to drop because experience teaches that it most definitely will
You will impose said cynicism on all future and potential love interests which is akin to pouring hot liquid on said potential partner or relationship/s and expect them to not feel it burn
Doom
"You men" or "You women" won't help you to build trust
Young or old, the cynicism poisons your own soul
I know because I have lived it... I have said "you women" to my partner at the time... it is what I was taught by this time in which I live... Our problems in the relationship I made about her and her perceptions, hence "you women"
I poured venom in her soul without a second thought
I had no wisdom
Is there a solution
Most definitely
The soul connection
You start first with yourself... if your energy is dark you may not be enticing to someone with sunlight in their soul, no matter how physically attractive you may be
Work on your own sunlight
If your focus is only on your target lover, and not on self, trying to maintain an uplifting relationship is an impossible task... You tend to expect your partner to live up to your need to pacify or to entertain or to make you feel secure... None of that is their job/s
I'm fully aware that there are some truly horrific, abusive relationships that folks have experienced, so trust becomes an issue and being gun shy, or wary of the next relationship is very natural and at times, life preserving when one is coming from domestic abusive situations
No arguments there
This is a natural reaction to being burned yet taking it to the next relationship, infused with constant cynicism from the past, will automatically doom the next coupling
The solution is to heal one's own soul
Learn to love the things about you that make you shine, even if a past partner tried to stifle it / them and made you self conscious of the joyful things in you
Create your own shine
Love you
Loving a partner is about the joy you feel inside whether you are with your partner or not... the love is transcendant... a love high
A love high
A higher love
Cynicism
I won't allow it to take my love
To Donate to the blog:
If you wish to encourage the writing, I ask those who wish to donate to do so
The fiscal encouragement would be greatly appreciloved
PayPal: [email protected]
etransfer: [email protected]
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