I was asked about my deep affections for my ex-wife and how it would affect any future relationships negatively, like some feel that I need to "get over" loving her
I believe the persons asking the question felt that the feelings I had / have for her is hindering future relationships and one even said that it would be unfair for a future partner to compete for those affections and that I needed to get over such feelings for her
One female friend pointed out that the break up with my ex, screwed it for all other women since the split
I also suspect lots of folks would share such sentiments in this insecure energy currently on this planet. Our need for ownership is ingrained in all of us. It is my personal experience that, in most relationships, we "own" our mates
"My man"
"My girl"
I feel now that is unhealthy thinking in our society cause nothing "belongs" to anyone on a physical plane even if your have a legal deed for the land, house, car, slaves on a plantation... nothing is "owned" but we are indoctrinated into this divisive energy with no map to get out of
I fell victim to that thinking the she was "mine" and got a rude awakening when reality set in and she was no longer mine
What happens then?
Deeeeeeeeeeppp despair. That's what! And as I wallowed through this painful realization that I was never going to have her again, the hot lava of sorrow melted down deep in my soul
What was I going to do?
Then it happened
The sunshine got let in through the dark curtain of deep sorrow
No matter whether she was with me or not, I can still love her. The memories of lived experiences from our past are beautiful today because they were beautiful then
I can love her for my whole life even if I have another partner and I will. My new partner ovastands and encourages that love, not intimidated by it, knowing my depth of love is hers to explore as well and create a secure and honestly loving bond. She does not have to stop loving past relationships for me either
Love is good in all forms
One's depth of love is truly individual so it is impossible to guage when we all have our own fantasies / illusions of what love is / means
I think that my love is eternal as well as ethereal and will survive when my physical essence has expired
Without her physically in my space does not hinder my spirit nor my zest for life. I find myself able to love more honestly and freely without the hangups of neediness or ownership
Living in love must have some hard truths one must try to face as well as to live
Love is nice
Love is always worth finding and keeping
Love is nice to share in your close circles and then sometimes, to total strangers
I think it is necessary for many to elevate in love based on the abuses by those who rule this world, as it shifts the consciousness in ways that cannot be controlled
Love cannot be controlled
This isn't about "war" which is how we are easily distracted nor is it about fighting, it is about loving and giving it freely
No fight
No fuss
Just love
Mally Bless & Tonya P bringing the Starliners energy to the world
I believe the persons asking the question felt that the feelings I had / have for her is hindering future relationships and one even said that it would be unfair for a future partner to compete for those affections and that I needed to get over such feelings for her
One female friend pointed out that the break up with my ex, screwed it for all other women since the split
I also suspect lots of folks would share such sentiments in this insecure energy currently on this planet. Our need for ownership is ingrained in all of us. It is my personal experience that, in most relationships, we "own" our mates
"My man"
"My girl"
I feel now that is unhealthy thinking in our society cause nothing "belongs" to anyone on a physical plane even if your have a legal deed for the land, house, car, slaves on a plantation... nothing is "owned" but we are indoctrinated into this divisive energy with no map to get out of
I fell victim to that thinking the she was "mine" and got a rude awakening when reality set in and she was no longer mine
What happens then?
Deeeeeeeeeeppp despair. That's what! And as I wallowed through this painful realization that I was never going to have her again, the hot lava of sorrow melted down deep in my soul
What was I going to do?
Then it happened
The sunshine got let in through the dark curtain of deep sorrow
No matter whether she was with me or not, I can still love her. The memories of lived experiences from our past are beautiful today because they were beautiful then
I can love her for my whole life even if I have another partner and I will. My new partner ovastands and encourages that love, not intimidated by it, knowing my depth of love is hers to explore as well and create a secure and honestly loving bond. She does not have to stop loving past relationships for me either
Love is good in all forms
One's depth of love is truly individual so it is impossible to guage when we all have our own fantasies / illusions of what love is / means
I think that my love is eternal as well as ethereal and will survive when my physical essence has expired
Without her physically in my space does not hinder my spirit nor my zest for life. I find myself able to love more honestly and freely without the hangups of neediness or ownership
Living in love must have some hard truths one must try to face as well as to live
Love is nice
Love is always worth finding and keeping
Love is nice to share in your close circles and then sometimes, to total strangers
I think it is necessary for many to elevate in love based on the abuses by those who rule this world, as it shifts the consciousness in ways that cannot be controlled
Love cannot be controlled
This isn't about "war" which is how we are easily distracted nor is it about fighting, it is about loving and giving it freely
No fight
No fuss
Just love
Mally Bless & Tonya P bringing the Starliners energy to the world
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